when we are born we come here with great expections to accomplish our tasks of this life. with each choice we make we either brighten our souls or darken the light of who we are here on earth.if we are the creator of a hateful argument it brings negative to us which dimishes our spirit brightness. when we are the creator of a joyful family event it brings light to us. another way of looking at this is when we create hate we start to surround ourselfs with negative thoughts that circles us .the energy is ours and it begans to circle than becomes part of us by attaching it self to us which is darken energy. and the same is true about joyful experiences; the energy start to circle around us than becames implanted with us which makes us brighter and brighter.
love and graditude